Tuesday, January 28, 2014

Week 36: Reality Hits


Dear Baby,
Four weeks and counting...  A four week countdown is nothing new to me.  I’ve made them in anticipation for vacations, last day of school, birthdays, and other holidays.  But, four weeks (give or take) until Dad and I become parents – forever?  That’s crazy!

At our 35 week check up we learned you’re in a good position to make your entrance.  Stay that way!  It gives Mom optimism that labor and delivery will be challenging, yet manageable.  I continue to read material and talk with other mamas.  This also gives me confidence. 

But, enough about me and my pregnancy.  It recently hit me that as I near the end of my pregnancy journey, it’s not really about me anymore.  It’s about you!  Soon, your story begins.  After you’re born we’ll have so many details to share with you.  We’ll know your gender, your size, whether you will be born with or without hair, and weather you arrived early or late based on your due date. (February 23)  We’ll have stories to share about how cooperative or stubborn you were during labor.  We will have photos with the people who came to visit and hold you in the hospital.  We’ll remember details about the weather on the day you were born.   Right now all these details are a mystery and it’s fun for Mom and Dad to imagine everything we’ll learn about you on your birthday.

How about a weather update, since that’s what everyone seems to be talking about these days!  This winter has seen some extremely cold temperatures.  The news folks say they’re caused by a weather system called a polar vortex.  Unfortunately, we seem to be continuously stuck in the cold trap.  Currently it’s about -17 degrees.  That’s without a wind chill.  Add the blustery winds to the mix and it feels more like -35 degrees.  Dad, who attempts to look on the positive side of this weather, says that we’ll be able to tell you just how cold it was during the winter you were born.

Some other exciting events to share with you – your room is ready!  Dad and I had a date night one Tuesday and painted your nursery.  We chose the color Agreeable Gray.  It’s a peaceful room to be in.  We hope you think so, too.  This past weekend I also prepared our stash of cloth diapers.  We’re all ready!

One tiny request that I know full well is completely out of my control, but if you could hold off your arrival until at least 37 weeks that would make everyone feel a little more comfortable.  37 weeks is what the medical world considers “early term.”  But the key word there is “term.”  At that point all you have left to do is gain weight.  As excited as we are to meet you, we’re also excited for you to be a healthy baby! 

See you soon!
Mom refinished your night stand
Refinished dresser - this furniture used to belong to Grandma Liz.  Now it's yours!
Your nursery!  Still needs a few things, but we're mostly ready.
Washing our cloth diapers so they're ready for use!
Somebunny practicing how to use the new dipes! 

Grandma Jo and Grandpa Dave helped us paint our kitchen yellow! 

Saturday, January 11, 2014

Week 33: A System of Support

Dear Baby,
Life is back to routine and I am a happy camper.  While all my travels were fun, I was ready to slow down and get back to a routine. 

This week I am regaining confidence in giving birth to you.  My most recent prenatal check-up was very positive.  I was able to enjoy a comfortable visit with our midwife and share good conversation about some questions I’d been pondering.  In addition to having had an extremely positive pregnancy and prenatal experience, I have been reading a few books, talking with other moms, and trusting my personal strength.  I am having fun imagining how your birthday will play out.  I know it will be an experience I remember for my lifetime. 

Dad has been getting quite excited for your birth, too.  It’s intriguing for this Momma to imagine how different a father’s “pregnancy” experience is from a mother’s.  Dads-to-be must learn and adapt to many new scenarios, too.  You are a very lucky little munchkin to have such a caring and involved Daddy.

It’s crazy to think that we’re getting close to meeting each other.  Our nurse suspects that you’ll probably be a wee little thing.  This is a just her guess based on the size of Mom’s belly.  I’m curious to see how little or big of a peanut you actually are.

Today, your Grandma Jo hosted a baby shower for us.  Attending the shower were many wonderful women who have posed as role models throughout my life.  Since I was a little girl these women have taught me much.  It is comforting to know that as I approach motherhood I will continue to have their support.  I can’t wait for you to meet all of them.

Having the encouragement from these women gets me thinking about how important it is to surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you!  I am confident you already have many talents yet to be discovered. Spend time with those who will help you find these talents and support you in reaching your goals and chasing your dreams.

While we wait for your arrival, I will continue to draw on my support system.  Dad and I can’t wait to start life with you!

Your new swing!  Grandma Liz swears by this because Mom was a "baby in motion!"
For your listening pleasure while Mom is working :)
Your bedside crib.  We are slowing getting ready for you!


Saturday, January 4, 2014

Week 32: Becoming a Mommy

Dear Baby,
The reality of becoming a mommy – your mommy – is getting more and more real.  I’m a mix of emotions about it.  Some moments I can’t wait for you to get here!  I count the weeks we have left in my mind, ponder your due date, and think about whether you’ll make your appearance early or late.  Other moments I start making lists of everything I need to do before your arrival.  Sometimes I question whether I have what it takes; the knowledge, patience, and stamina to be a mom.


Lately I’m finding it difficult to plan my parenting goals or picture my ideal parenting lifestyle.  There seems to be so much information to sift through.  I want to know it all!  I want to do what’s best for you.  But, if I think too much I become overwhelmed with the pressure of advertisements for new or convenient baby products, advice from other parents, and warnings about being cautious in regards to health and safety hazards.  This is where I need to remind myself of my own self-confidence.  I will approach parenting just as I do many other things in life.  I will approach it with an open mind and heart.  I will have to trust my own instincts and “Duchrow with it!”  Thanks in advance for letting me practice with you.

Today was an exciting day – your cousin Mary was born!
Here's some photos of all that we've been up to lately!
The Big Easy at Christmas Time

Bridesmaids on Jane's Wedding Day!
Our friends, Emma and Max, are curious to see your hair color since we figure all our children's hair will be about the same.  It's science, right?
The after wedding party continues at Pat O'Brien's
Your first souvenir
Mom was practicing with the car seat
More practice... you'll definitely be cozy!
Christmas Eve
Rotary Lights in downtown La Crosse with your cousin Ryan

Bridesmaids on Nikki's NYE Wedding Day!
Wigs & Wiggles - Jane's Burbon Street bachelorette party!